5 Simple Tips to Keep the Fire of Marital Love Burning
As you hop in into the crazy and extraordinary world of marriage, there’s really no turning back. This is unless if you’re in a country where divorce is legal and can be processed as fast as lightning.
But you know, filing a divorce and/or ending the entire marriage as if it’s just an exam you can’t handle answering anymore aren’t always the best answers in line to take. Now, holding on to a long-running relationship is becoming one of the biggest challenges right now that’s being experienced by humanity.
The truth is, many people or to say the least, many couples are merely lacking from contentment, faithfulness, loyalty, and understanding. And if you’re currently facing a trial in your marriage, you better save it as soon as you can.
You can follow these easy tips in order to withstand the obstacles [within your marriage] you’re facing right now and will be facing in the future. So, read further and take careful note on how to save the dying flame in of marital love.
1. Get off from the electronic devices
As the world slowly gets more digitalised, the physical and social connection between people continues to narrow down on the other hand. For some, the unstoppable innovation of countless variety of electronic devices symbolises a bridge to better communication and healthier social status.
Whereas, what’s really behind the curtain of this uncontrollable innovation is the growth of high and solid barriers to almost all relationships around the globe. So, if you notice that your marriage is getting more difficult to handle, open your eyes and observe – what’s wrong?
From now on, stop filling in your social media accounts’ feeds and start filling your marriage with love and romantic memories. Why start connecting with people online when you have the whole world right next to you, right?
Instead of using your hands to manipulate and hold a variety of devices, use it to squeeze your hands with the hands of your spouse. Instead of clipping your eyes on the screens or monitors of several gadgets, use it to look deeply in the eyes of your husband/wife where your universe perfectly lies.
2. Never take your partner for granted
Spending long years together results in an inexplicable level of comfort that sometimes ruins the entire relationship. Some may feel confident enough that their partner’s love and affection can be their keys to immediate forgiveness after doing something unacceptable within their marriage.
If you want to keep the fire of your marriage lasts a lifetime, you better not take your partner for granted. Before you do something that will absolutely put your marriage on the edge of the cliff, think first of how you’ll damage your spouse’s feeling.
Once you choose to put your relationship into another level, make sure that you can take part in all the responsibilities as a husband/wife to your partner. And several from the long list of responsibilities is to remain faithful, committed, honest, and content during and beyond marriage.
3. Take a break and have some luxury escapes
Every married couple knows that even in marriage, there’s an immense need of pressing the “pause” button for some time. If you’re slowly getting tired of the daily routine of your married life, then you better call on your spouse and start packing your things up.
It’s now time for both of you to take a break and smother yourselves with the privileges of some luxury escapes. Runaway from all the responsibilities even for one or two weeks a year to have a once in a lifetime kind of vacation with the love of your life.
Run hand-in-hand on the beach with your lovely husband/wife. Talk about how you’ve been surpassing the fun and thrilling rollercoaster type of ride of your married life under the starry night sky. Very cool and romantic, right?
So, start reconciling and reviving the slowly fading love by getting yourselves into a luxury escapes. This is surely the perfect time and way to get back the electrifying romance between you and your husband/wife.
4. Let there be healthy communication
If you’ve been looking all around the corner for something that might help you save your gradually drowning marriage, check on the quality of communication that you have as husband and wife. The probable lack of communication or poor communication is also one of the destroyers of several relationships.
So, you better not underestimate the power of healthy communication in a marriage and how it can serve as a bridge between people – married or not. Having an effective and healthy communication should be practiced by both parties.
Always keep in touch with your spouse and never get tired of communicating your love each and every day and you’ll be surprised how much it helps your marriage level up more and more – remember to do it personally and not digitally, okay?
5. Don’t get tired of making a surprise
Getting into marriage shouldn’t stop you from being sweet or making surprises for your partner. Well, in fact, you should boost your efforts now that you’re living under one roof and on the verge of spending the rest of your lives together.
So, if you observe that the fire of marital love is slowly vanishing, hurry up and change your game plan. Give your spouse a sweet surprise as much as you can – weekly? Monthly? Or yearly? No matter how often just do whatever you can.
Making surprises is one of the most effective and efficient ways to ignite the slowly dying flame in either aspect of a relationship in life. It’s because it greatly gives the person the unexplainable feeling of how important he/she is in your life. Why don’t you give it a try and find out the results for yourself?
So, now that you’ve opened up the great source of tips to save the eradicating marital love, you better not wait for any other time to apply all these in your married life. Hurry up and give each other endless heart-thumping moments for a lifetime!
Kath Ramirez embraced the dream of being a writer since she was in 4th grade. She took it seriously and she now writes for Kims and absolute beachfront tropical location in the northern part of Sydney. Aside from writing, Kath also keeps herself busy spending time with her family, cherishing the role of a mom to 3 dogs and a puppy, reading random books, and diving into the world of photography. She’s not even a pro to whatever she’s engaged into right now, but one thing she knows, she’s happy and that’s more than enough.